Hello, Carolyn: My husband lately has been pushing strongly for me to dress sexier and more provocatively. In a way, it is flattering that he likes my figure. The problem is, I’m a pretty shy person who prefers to wear modest clothing. I’ve never been comfortable wearing low-cut dresses, which are his favorites. Loosefitting, flowy and mostly covered has always been my jam. I have nothing against people who wear flashier stuff — in fact, I envy their confidence — but it’s just not my preference.
