Dear Meghan: How can I help my husband stay connected to our kids ages 11, 13 and 15? Our kids are pulling away, as is developmentally appropriate, and he feels personally offended that they’re not as close. He ignores the fact that he and the 15-year-old practically have their own language based in movie quotes, or he’s where our 13-year-old turns to when she and I butt heads.