“I’ve seen people comment on other queer people’s posts, as well, like, ‘That baby needs their biological father,’ or, ‘That baby needs their biological mother,'” Farago said, “failing to realize that the people that do IVF—queer or straight—want these babies so bad, and are going to love these children so much. And they are probably in one of the most loving households that there can be because of how much time and effort and money people put into having these babies. They’re going to be so loved.”
Moreover, she continued, “People focus on biology and DNA so much that they forget babies don’t really care about that.”
Her kids may have questions when they’re older, and Farago said they will eventually know the identity of their sperm donor.
But, she added, “when they’re kids they just want to be loved. We can provide that for them, and that’s the most important part. That’s all that matters.”
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